I love love love using drawer dividers to keep clothes organized. Especially baby clothes! Using these open baskets in the drawers makes clothes easy to find and makes the transition between seasons a breeze!
As a parent to two young children I spend a ridiculous amount of time cleaning up after them. I also spend a lot of time getting things for them. Snacks, toys, craft supplies; not a day goes by that I don’t hear “Mama! Can you get me my (fill in the sometimes irrational request)?”. Don’t get me wrong, I love to do things for and with them, but I also want them to be independent and give them the confidence to know they have the capability to do these things on their own.
It’s not just their toys that need to be organized, other areas of your home can contribute to their autonomy as well.
Keep things at their level: If you have a spot where you can place their plates, bowls, cutlery, etc that is within their reach, use it. My kids really like to choose their own forks and spoons, so I always have them in an open bin that they can access within the cupboard or take out easily if they choose to. We also have very deep cupboards in the kitchen, (this can be challenge, I know) so it’s really important to have the everyday stuff right in the front. Save the back for the items that you use less frequently.
Having their things accessible means that they can easily help set the table, or get the appropriate piece of cutlery when they need a snack.
Another helpful tool in the kitchen is a water cooler. We had one for years and it meant that every time my kids yelled that they were thirsty both their cups and water were easily within reach and they could help themselves. I won’t lie, there were more spills on the floor than I could possibly count, but hey, it’s only water!
It is also incredibly helpful to have a place where their snacks are handy. If you have a place in your pantry and/or your fridge that has healthy, parent-approved snacks already portioned out you can save yourself a great deal of stress.
We all try to find that balance between getting stuff done with the kids around and not letting them watch too much T.V. Once my kids are home from school they each get to pick one 20 minute show and then the screen goes off (this isn’t a hard and fast rule; I find the later I get into this pregnancy and more exhausted I become, the more this rule gets stretched). Once the T.V. is off I need to entertain them and since this is generally the time that I am putting dinner together or finishing up my work, they need to play on their own. For that reason I love having a craft station. My office and their playroom is a shared space on our main floor. This is by design. I do a lot of work from home. Much of it while my kids are home. As a result I need to be close and keep an eye on them. When I first moved my desk into their playroom my son asked me why. My daughter replied “because mommy likes to be with her children” (cue heart melting).
Their craft station is a rolling Ikea cart in between two tables. Everything is in clear bins that they can open and close on their own. I also keep a supply of blank paper, coloring books, play-doh and stickers. One of the tricks I use is to not have everything accessible to them all the time. I have more supplies stashed away. I don’t keep everything out, I rotate and restock as needed. Too much of a good thing isn't actually a good thing. The result is a space that works for all of us, with constructive play time and work happening together.
I cannot overstate how important it is to keep their toys organized and to a minimum. The less there is, the better they play with what they have and the more they can use their imaginations. I’ve seen it with my children and with countless clients whose playrooms I have reorganized. Kids play better with less. Period. If you don’t want to just get rid of all their toys (which is completely understandable) try having a rotating stock and only keep a few things out at a time.
In terms of organizing their play area, the same guidelines apply. Have things at their level, in bins or baskets that they can open on their own. You can use pictograms if necessary, and please, please, please take a few minutes to explain the system to them. Sit down and show them how you have organized their toys. Explain to them where to find everything and that they need to clean up and put away one set of toys before they are allowed to move on to the next. I’m not saying this is a foolproof system. They are kids, and won’t always clean up when they're done. But you certainly can’t expect them to know what to do if you don’t explain. Encourage them and then reinforce the positive things they do.
I want my kids to become helpful and contributing members of society and I don’t think that by doing everything for them I am fostering that kind of independence. I think it is important to take away as many roadblocks as possible that sit in the path of the little tasks your are asking of them (you are not going to get your kid to grab their favorite puzzle without your help if you’ve placed it on a completely inaccessible shelf). You should have things organized in a predictable way that makes sense to them. Grouping like items together, having easy to open bins and easily identifiable contents, are just a few of the ways to accomplish this. I’m not guaranteeing instant success and that your child will suddenly do everything on their own, but these are great first steps towards their autonomy.
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My last post tackled starting small with your organizing as a way to motivate you onto the bigger projects. I focused on steps you can use to tackle the often forgotten about space under the sink, but really you can apply those steps to other spaces that need a bit of love. Since one of the biggest questions I get is “How do you keep your home organized” I thought you might appreciate a look into my home. Particularly under my sink and how I deal with it when it is no longer working.
The space wasn’t a disaster but definitely needed an update. It’s always a good plan to identify what your problem is before going in to fix it. My two biggest issues were that: 1. We use a lot of washcloths to wipe kid’s face and hands and the dirty ones kept congregating on the counter until I got fed up enough to bring them to the laundry room. 2. The stackable bins I was using wouldn’t stay stacked and what I had in them wasn’t accessible enough for me.
The third issue was that no one other than me was really maintaining my system. What was intuitive to me wasn’t as straightforward to my husband and my kids couldn’t grab a washcloth or hand towel with turning everything upside down.
I had a few minutes one day and decided to deal with this space. So out everything came and the inside got a thorough wipe down. Once all the products came out and they were sorted I took inventory of what I really needed to keep there. I have to admit, since I had already pared down what was stored there some time ago the list wasn’t very long. My biggest challenges was really getting everything back under the sink in a way that A. made sense for how I used it and B. was going to be maintained by others.
With a husband, a 5 year old and 3 year old this was no small feat. Clearly what I was doing before wasn’t working so I decided to keep it simple. Very simple. The most used items needed to be right in front and it needed to be SUPER clear where things went.
The recycling bin was a non-movable. It’s the most convenient and out of sight spot for us to have it. Unfortunately that means I lose about half my space. Saving the earth takes sacrifice! I picked up a small plastic shelf from the dollar store and grabbed some bins that both fit what I needed to store and could go in the space the shelf allowed for.
My under the sink essentials are washcloths, kitchen towels, dish sponges, clothes to clean the counter and dishwasher detergent (because we seriously run that thing once a day!) I also needed a convenient spot to put all the dirty cloths and towels so they wouldn’t end up on the counter. Since my kids can’t read yet, I realized that not only did I have to label them but they needed to be in different containers so I could identify them to my children. Oh, you need a washcloth? That’s in the clear bin. You took my hand towel to clean the water you spilled all over the floor because your toys need a bath? No problem, just throw it in the green bucket.
So back everything went into it’s clearly designated space. I also store a few items that only I really use behind the shelf. Special cleaner for the stovetop, white vinegar and the cleaning concentrate I use to make up the spray I use on the counters. You’ll notice I don’t really store cleaning products under the sink. Over the years I have really pared down what I use in the kitchen. I only use dish soap and a spray for the counters and they both stay up top in a tray next to the sink. The amount of times my children literally lick food off the table has made me very careful about what I use to clean.
The last part of this space is the inside of the doors. I didn’t change anything around this time but I do use them to hang rubber gloves (which I wear only if my nails are done which unfortunately is very infrequently, they usually get nabbed by my three year old when she plays dress-up) and a place for the plastic bags that we accumulate.
I did this under the sink update a little over two months ago and haven’t had an issue since. Yes the occasional washcloth or dirty towel still finds it’s way to the counter but that’s just life. It really is the small changes that make a big difference. When you see how much positive can come out of a few small changes it can be very motivating to tackle some slightly bigger projects.
Happy Organizing! If you want to send me a peek under your kitchen sink get in touch here.