I bought a few new picture frames the other week and after I peeled off the price tag (which they of course put directly on the glass!) I saw that it left that annoying sticker residue behind. I was going to just try scratching it off but I thought I would try something new. . . and it totally worked!!! Check out my video below to see what I used.
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I absolutely love organizing toys, I find it one of the most satisfying projects. I also absolutely hate organizing toys, because it can be soooo frustrating. I feel like if you're a parent and reading this you know exactly what I’m talking about. It’s the same feeling that you get right after you spend hours getting the house tidy, and everything is put away and the floors are clean and it has that nice fresh feeling to it. . . and then the kids come home. And it is all ruined. Instantly. Organizing toys is kind of like that, all your hard work can go right down the drain before your eyes.
Now, I’m not saying that playroom disaster is inevitable (even though it kind of is) I’m just saying that you need to have realistic expectations of the outcome. So with all that being said, here are 5 things that this Professional Organizer wants you to know about organizing toys.
1. This Isn't A One Shot Deal
Remember that movie “Groundhog Day”, the one where Bill Murray relives the same day over and over again? Well, it’s kind of like that. Kids needs change and interests change over time. So you're going to have to do this again and again. The way that I organized toys for my older kids when they were babies and toddlers is quite different for the way I have them now at age (almost) 5 and 7. And then when you throw my 11 month old into the mix all bets are off. Be prepared that you’re going to have to adjust as you go and also as they grow.
2. You're Going To Piss Off Your Kids
Well, maybe. Unless they’re like my kids and have become accustomed to me uprooting their toy system on a regular basis. Your kids will probably be annoyed, but I can almost guarantee that they will play better with the stuff they have once your have curated their collection and they can actually find what they're looking for. Kids don’t need a lot of toys or games to play happily and productively. Just look at what happens every time you give them a giant cardboard box. They tap into their creative little minds and happily play with it for hours, if not days. So take solace in the fact that organizing their toys into a way that makes sense will pay off in the long run.
3. You May Have To Be Sneaky
I'm not usually an advocate for getting rid of people’s stuff behind their back and you should try to let them play a role in some of the decision making process of what stays and what goes. But you may have to throw some actual stuff out without telling them. Let's just keep in mind that their brains are not fully developed yet so their ability to make decisions about what to keep/donate may not be reasoned. Heck most adults can barely make those decisions. You do want to consult with them and have them be engaged in the process but just remember who the adult is in the situation.
4. Set Realistic Expectations
My 8 month old knows exactly where to put her toys back when she's done playing with them. Said NO ONE EVER! Micro-organizing your baby’s toys is just asking for trouble. All kids do at that age is put things in their mouths and dump their toys out of the bins that you so diligently set up. So while it’s perfectly realistic to expect a 4 year old to put the ‘pretend play’ items back in the right spot, or a 6 year old to put his action figures back in their bin, the same is obviously not true of the really little ones. I like to try and keep baby/toddler stuff accessible and at their level and not stress too much about if their blocks are commingling with their animals.
5. Don’t Believe Everything You See On Pinterest
While I love Pinterest for its amazing ideas and awesome inspiration it can sometimes be a bit too good to be true. Headlines like ‘10 Genius Toy Organization Hacks” and “Super Easy DIY Toy Organization” can be a bit misleading. Not everything works for everyone and I often find that when my clients try some of these pinterest-perfect ideas it leads to feeling of disappointment and failure. Just because a system works for someone else doesn’t mean that it will work for you and your family. Try to think critically about the way your kids play with their toys and if this pretty image you’re seeing will work in the space that you have. Take different element of different ideas and morph it into something that makes sense for you.
Good Luck & Happy Organizing!
One of my bigger struggles as a Professional Organizer is how to translate my routines and processes into sharable tips and advice. So much of how I live my life in terms of my daily routines have become so automated that it can be hard for me to realize its efficiency until I step back and look at it.
Lately I have been trying to look at my day more critically in order to put together some kind of formula that I can share with others. But what I have discovered is that I don’t actually have a formula. As counter-intuitive as it may seem I am constantly readjusting and reprioritizing in order to get the most out of my day. So I think I have narrowed it down to the three biggest things that I do on a daily basis that make my life easier and more organized.
Everything Has A Home
Clients and friends ask me all the time “how I do it” (even though I'm not totally sure what “it” is) and remark how organized and clean and perfect my house must be. First of all it’s not clean and perfect and organized all the time. I just don’t feel like that is a realistic or attainable goal. I have three kids (one of which is under one year old) and they like to play and craft and create. So the house is sometimes a bit of a disaster. But that’s ok, because I do have systems in place that when we are ready to tidy up, everything has a home. That way there is no wondering where to put things. Cleaning up becomes a one step process, you know where things go and you just put it back. Now, this isn’t something that just happens overnight, a lot of work went into having a home for all of our belongings. It requires me to be very critical of what comes into my home and to constantly curate our belongings and adapt to my family’s changing needs. But having everything in place does mean that there is a sense of peace in my everyday life, because I can spend time working on what actually matters instead of stressing about my cluttered home.
Prioritize, Reprioritize And Then Re-reprioritize!
I read lots of blogs and follow tons of people who are experts in productivity and organization. Most of them seem to have quite a strict routine that they follow (or at least they seem to on social media!). But for me I find that the opposite is true.
Yes I keep a running ‘to-do’ list and yes I set goals for myself each day, but these goals and to-dos can sometimes change throughout the day. Sometimes items get put off until the next day and then sometimes they are scrapped altogether. And I don’t look at this as a failure to complete my list, I look at as a reprioritization of what I need and what my family needs at a given moment.
There are obviously some non-negotiables on my list. Mostly these consist of deadlines imposed on me by other people: a form for my son’s school needs to be filled out by a certain day, or I have to make 45 valentines cards for each of my kids classmates, or I told a client I would send a follow-up email. For me those items become “must-dos” for my day, my ‘no matter what happens, these things just must get done.’ And I usually do them first. Because let's be honest, you never know what is going to happen. But any other item that found it’s way onto my list gets categorized as a “that would be nice” item. It would be nice if I could get the photos updated on my website today, but if there end up being other things that need to take precedence the world will keep turning if it only gets done next week. The key to this is to not beat yourself up if all the things on your list don’t get checked off. I find myself often saying that I simply had to prioritize my objectives and this just didn’t make the cut. And then I just move on.
Another big one for me is streamlining a lot of our daily tasks, routines and spaces. I built my business around the whole idea that you don’t have time to waste looking for your things, and the same theory applies here. We don’t have the time to spend running around for no reason, so let’s streamline the tasks we do repeatedly.
For instance, I try to keep a wastebasket in nearly every room in our home. There is less likelihood that people (and by people I mean my husband and children) will leave garbage on the floor if they are within arms reach of properly disposing of it.
I also tend to store items where I use them; like having our coffee machine on the counter while the cupboard directly above it contains coffee, filters and mugs. Because the last thing you need is to stumble around for your caffeine fix at 5:30 in the morning. Amirite?
If you follow me with any regularity you probably are already aware of my eternal love for stair-baskets but they deserve another shout-out here. They go on the stairs, collect the items that need to go to another floor and prevent multiple wasted trips up and down. They are my organizing all-star.
I also keep a “dirty” bucket under the sink in the kitchen. We wipe the kids’ hands and faces multiple times per day and change out our sponges and dishtowels regularly, I can’t be running to the laundry room every time. Enter the dirty bucket. It’s like a mini hamper within arms reach that can be brought to be washed in one trip.
This post was originally titled ‘‘The Number One Way That I Stay Organized’. Then I realized that title was b.s. I don’t have just one thing that I do, I have several that work together to help me stay on top of my game, both for my business and my family.
And I think that’s what I really want you to take away from this. There are multiple paths to your goal or leading a more organized life, and it’s really okay for those paths to twist and turn and even loop back around again, just try to keep moving forward and adapt to the many roadblocks that will be thrown in your way.
Good Luck & Happy Organizing!